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Whilst holidaying in the Scottish Highlands, I learned of the passing of Doug Thomas, a fellow cat blogger. Although I knew that Doug hadn’t been well, with frequent trips to hospital, this news really knocked me off my feet and I’m still not sure how to process it. 

Doug’s was one of the very first cat blogs – perhaps even THE first – that I followed on WordPress and, through his words and photos, I soon got to know him and his smoke-black Persian cats, Andy and Dougy. 

(Yes, his name was Doug and one of his cats was called Dougy. I know.) 

When a friend or a family member passes away, there is a well-trodden path to follow: a funeral service, mutual friends with whom to share memories, birthdays and anniversaries to commemorate, and so on. But, when you only know said person through their writing on your WordPress feed, and you haven’t met them face to face, what exactly is supposed to happen? It seems that you simply unsubscribe from their life, and they from yours, and that’s it. It’s a very strange feeling.

That said, when I read Doug’s final farewell, posted by one of his family members, and scrolled below to comment, there we all were: a comment from Person A, whose cat blog I follow and who follows mine, then Person B, whose cat blog I follow and who follows mine, and so on. We all knew Doug. The threads of the Cat Internet that link us together may be gossamer-fine, like the nylon wires of those illusion necklaces with floating pendants that were popular in the early 2000s. But, despite being almost invisible to the naked eye, they are there nonetheless and, perhaps, are more enduring than they may seem. 

Doug, may your paradise home be just like that of your earthly life: a peaceful place with a creepy SpongeBob soft toy lurking in the corner of your living room, good enough WiFi to allow you to write every day, and, of course, cats galore. Thank you for brightening the Cat Internet for all of us. We miss you. 

Louis Catorze would have loved to be Doug’s cat.

I don’t know for how much longer Doug’s blog will be available, but enjoy it here whilst you can. 

Doug’s obituary is here.

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22 responses to “Au revoir, Doug ”

  1. Kate Crimmins avatar

    It was very sad and although I knew about his health issues, it was a shock. Cat people don’t die. It’s a wonderful community and I was grateful to have come across his cats and enjoyed his stories. Hopefully Andy is adjusting to his new home. It’s hard for an older cat but this cat was loved by many.

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    1. iamthesunking avatar

      It’s funny how cat people all find each other on WordPress! It was quite comforting to see all our names there together, when usually I interact with each one of you at a time.

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      1. Kate Crimmins avatar

        It is. Sometimes I find non-cat bloggers I follow on non-cat blogs I read. I think people of the same mind find each other. Having cats or any sort of pet helps.

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        1. iamthesunking avatar

          Yes, cats help to unite us! Or maybe they’re just getting us all together so it’s easier to exterminate us when The Uprising starts. 😳

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          1. Kate Crimmins avatar

            The second is more likely! 🙂

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  2. cat9984 avatar

    That’s a beautiful memorial. Doug was also one of my long-term reads. It does feel like we’ve lost a friend

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    1. iamthesunking avatar

      It does, doesn’t it? Such a strange feeling. 😢😢😢

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  3. Leah avatar

    We were so sad to lose Doug, too. I remember reading his comments, all around, like on an old page Cat Fancy used to have, long ago way back when. Tried to never miss his posts. I’m sure his family is taking good care of Andy. We wish them peace and comfort. I also hope they will leave his blog up, and/or maybe even continue it.

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    1. iamthesunking avatar

      Ahh, that would be amazing if they continued it! 😍

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  4. Suzanne avatar
    Suzanne

    I’m so sorry to hear about Doug. I hope recognizing those threads of connection brings some comfort as you remember him and his kittehs. ❤️

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    1. iamthesunking avatar

      Merci! Yes, it was comforting to see that we’re all linked. 🥰

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  5. mmechapeau avatar
    mmechapeau

    I didn’t know Doug, but your text is stirring.

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  6. Herman avatar
    Herman

    This is a beautiful and moving post, a nice tribute to Doug. He was a long time follower of my blog and I was shocked to find out he passed away. It felt like loosing a good friend.

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    1. iamthesunking avatar

      Aww, merci! Yes, it still feels like quite a loss, doesn’t it? 😢

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  7. Dr. CaSo avatar

    I am so sorry about Doug 😥 Andy must miss his human! A blog-friend of mine committed suicide and it was very sad to not be able to do anything, as you say. To “unsubscribe” from someone’s life sounds so… artificial and superficial, even though the friendship was real! There is a cat heaven, and I’m sure Doug is already visiting it and playing with all the kitties that we miss.

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    1. iamthesunking avatar

      Oh my goodness, that’s awful about your blog friend! I’m so sorry! 😢😢😢

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  8. RasmaSandra avatar

    I loved his blog and was very saddened by his passing. I put in a prayer for his family and his beloved cat Andy, and I hope Andy, like all cats, is comforted by Doug’s presence in spirit and continues enjoying his cat life.

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    1. iamthesunking avatar

      I hope so, too! 🥹

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  9. mcmcneil1 avatar
    mcmcneil1

    We enjoyed Doug’s blog too and admiresd how he carried on despite all his health problems. We were sorry to lose him. We don;t have a blog but we read a lot ofblogs every day and it is a real community there. Sad when a human is lost. and also when a kitty goes Over the Rainbow Bridge.

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    1. iamthesunking avatar

      Yes, I completely agree! 🥺

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